Many of you know my Gran suffered from a major stoke the day after Christmas 2006. She had right side neglect causing her to not be able to walk or use the right side of her body. Being the best daughters a mom could ask for, my mom and aunt, jumped right in and without discussion moved Gran in with them. For three years, they poured their heart, soul, time, and energy into giving Gran the best care possible. They had to step out of their comfort zone many time to 'confront' people who weren't doing right by Gran. They dealt with multiple broken bones, falls, sleepless nights, many more mini strokes, and people taking advantage of them, but NEVER let Gran know that they were tired, stressed, and overwhelmed. They did it all because they loved their mommy.
On November 10th, Gran had another stroke that she would not recover from. She went into hospice- all with her daughters by her side 24 hours a day. On November 21st, Gran passed away. She was the kindest woman I have ever known. She was BEAUTIFUL....barely any wrinkles at age 88 (maybe I'll be that lucky!). She was quiet, caring, thoughtful, and loved by many. I am so, so ,so sad to have lost my Gran and will miss her more than I think I realize. But I am sadder that my mom and March have lost their mommy. She would be proud of the daughters she raised.
Jessica emailed me and I updated our M&M blog prayer request....your tribute is beautiful and I LOVE the picture of her sweet hands....think of all the love that those hands shared....
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful post. I am sure it was difficult to do. She was such a sweet person and what great memories you all have.
ReplyDeleteMal--It is truly amazing what a loving granddaughter you are to write such a beautiful post! I know that you will carry on many of Gran's wonderful attributes in raising your daughters! Thanks for sharing everything with us!
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allison
After reading your post I have tears in my eyes. Your Gran was blessed with a wonderful family. The pictures and memories you have are priceless. CC and Emory will cherish these pictures forever. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Lots of love!!
ReplyDeleteSo sweet Mallory! It is so, so hard to lose a grandparent. May the memories you shared together keep her spirit alive forever! Praying for you and your family!!
ReplyDeleteMallory ... I am in tears! That was such a sweet tribute to your gran. She was BEAUTIFUL! Your family, especialy your Mom and Aunt will be in my prayers. I hope my kids love me that much when I am older. I have always said the way we treat our elderly and children is a reflection of our true character. Your family sound like they have an abundance.
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